Love Isn’t Scarce; It’s Raining Soulmates.
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About It’s Raining Soulmates
It’s Raining Soulmates is a heart-centered mentorship space for women who are ready to stop repeating old relationship patterns and finally call in the healthy, joyful, deeply aligned love they deserve.
Through compassionate guidance, transformative tools, and steady support, I help women—especially those over 40—heal past wounds, rebuild confidence, and step into a new way of choosing and being chosen.
This isn’t about “fixing yourself.”
It’s about discovering the inner clarity, emotional strength, and soulful alignment that make true partnership possible.
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Inside It’s Raining Soulmates, you’ll find:
Supportive mentorship and counselling to heal what’s been blocking love
Coaching and actionable tools to help you date with confidence and discernment
A safe, uplifting space to reconnect with who you are and what you truly want
Guidance for creating the relationship you’ve dreamed of—one that lasts
Meet Ellen
Hello, beautiful soul — I’m Ellen.
And nothing in my life has taught me more about resilience, hope, and the power of inner healing than my own journey to love.
I spent decades as a single parent, doing everything on my own. I had been in and out of relationships that left me wounded, confused, or diminished, until I eventually stepped away from dating altogether for more than ten years.
I built a full life… but in quiet moments, I felt the ache of wanting a real partner — one who would meet me with kindness, devotion, and true emotional presence.Everything shifted when I joined a community of single parents committed to deep, affordable, accessible inner work.
This wasn’t traditional counselling.
It was a grassroots, healing-centered environment that helped me understand the emotional patterns I was carrying — not just from my personal history, but also from living in a society shaped by sexism, racism, class pressures, and the many overlapping forces that shape how women see themselves and their worth.
With compassionate guidance, a focus on emotional release, and powerful support, I began to truly heal. I learned to feel my feelings rather than override them, to honour my needs, and to differentiate between the voice of my wounds and the voice of my wisdom.
I blossomed.
That work transformed me so profoundly that I eventually became a leader, guiding others in the same healing principles — and over time, I shaped that foundation into the modality I use today: a deeply validating, empowering, emotionally honest approach designed for women who want love that lasts. And here’s the truth I share with every woman I work with: I would never have met my husband without doing this work.
I married for the first time at 49 — after breaking a lifelong web of patterns that had kept me choosing the wrong partners or feeling invisible altogether. Love, sex, childhood wounds — they weave a trap where pleasure and pain get tangled. Untangling that is the key to choosing someone who is truly good for you. For the last eight years, I’ve devoted my practice to helping women — especially those over 40 — release the old patterns, rebuild self-trust, and prepare for the healthy, joyful partnership they’ve always deserved. I still offer support for all areas of life, but my deepest calling is mentoring women who are ready to find real love… the kind that feels like home. If you're here, it’s not too late.
​Your story isn’t finished.
And you don’t have to walk this path alone.
My Approach
Guiding Women to the Healthy Love They Deserve-From the Inside Out
1. Seeing the Truth Beneath the Pain
For over 30 years, I’ve honed a deeply intuitive and skillful way of understanding the human heart. I’m not afraid to look beneath the surface — past the storms of past hurts, old patterns, and the “protective” habits that block you from love. I see the real you, even when your patterns are trying to keep you hidden.
My work begins with clarity: uncovering the roots of what’s been holding you back and naming truths that your heart has waited years to speak.
2. Healing Through - Not Around
Most of us are taught to sidestep our pain, rise above it, or power through. But lasting transformation doesn’t happen around the hurt — only through it.
My approach guides you into safely discharging the old emotions that have shaped your beliefs about yourself, love, and your worthiness.
This is deep inner work, but you won’t be walking through it alone. Think of it as stepping under a sturdy umbrella together while we face the rain of old wounds — and finally let it pass.
3. Breaking Patterns That No Longer Serve You
Most of Every woman who comes to me has brilliant instincts — they’ve just been tangled in years of conditioning, heartbreak, and self-protection.
Together, we gently unravel the unconscious patterns that have directed your love life for far too long. Then we actively contradict them, one by one, in ways that feel empowering and grounded.
This is a collaborative process. I don’t fix you — I walk beside you as you reclaim yourself.
4. Fierce Support, Unshakeable Belief
I love my clients fiercely. I believe in their goodness, their brilliance, their capacity to love — long before they sometimes believe it themselves.
I never give up on the women I work with. I hold a clear vision of who you are becoming, even when the rain gets heavy.
And as your old stories dissolve, a new one emerges: one where you feel worthy, whole, and fully ready for the love that’s meant for you.
Together, we move you from surviving the weather… to dancing in it.
What I Know For Sure...
"I Lead With Instincts combined with dynamic counselling skills and a genuine lovefor your journey"
Why My Business Is Called
"It's Raining Soulmates"
So many women are taught to believe there is just one perfect partner out there — one magical person who holds the key to their happiness. But that belief often creates fear, scarcity, and pressure. It makes love feel like searching for a needle in a haystack… and for some women, it stops the search altogether.
I see love differently.
In a world of billions of people, there are so many humans you could be wonderfully compatible with — people whose hearts, values, and souls could meet yours in harmony. And you don’t need an endless number. You only need one aligned, loving partner for your life to bloom.
When you release the myth of “the only one,” everything becomes lighter and more hopeful. I often invite women to imagine that right in their own town, city, or village, there are not one… but at least four people who could be an extraordinary match. In reality, it’s probably dozens.
That’s why my work is called It’s Raining Soulmates — because love isn’t scarce. It’s abundant. It’s all around you. And when you’re open, healed, and ready… it feels like the sky is full of possibilities.
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Why Trying to Figure Out Your Love Quest on Your Own Rarely Works
A soulmate quest is one of the most revealing journeys you’ll ever take. As I walked the path toward my own husband — after years of personal work, counselling others, and deep inner excavation — I kept uncovering new layers of what was holding me back from fully shining.
And that final missing piece was the love I deeply longed for.
Wanting love with your whole heart is powerful… but it also means you will face the old wounds, fears, and patterns that have quietly shaped your choices for years. No one gets through that alone — not because you’re weak, but because the patterns you’re up against are deeply unconscious.
Without skilled support, these patterns behave like tricksters.
They will:
Pull you off course
Convince you to stay where you are
Make harmful situations feel familiar (and therefore “right”)
Whisper stories that keep you small, guarded, or chasing the wrong people
These patterns are like parasites — they don’t want you to heal, because healing makes them obsolete. They can even feel like old friends, offering comfort that quietly keeps you stuck.
And a single painful situation with the wrong partner can set you back months or even years.
This is why help matters.
This is why wise eyes, honest voices, and experienced guidance can change everything.
You don’t need to struggle your way through the hardest terrain alone.
You deserve a steady hand, a clear mirror, and a path that leads you toward the love you want — without detours, dead ends, or unnecessary heartbreak.
"Love after 40 is not only possible, but probable, with the right guidance."
Ellen Arrand - Founder of It's Raining Soulmates